Handjob Techniques

Hey guys! Today we talk about a very important skill to have. Learning how to give a great hand job   is a secret  weapon, that not many women have.  You don’t wanna stroke it the same way over and over again, hand job is an art and many workers of spa salons can bring any client to the happiest ending in minutes, they def know something you don’t know! These tips will make  the  guy be  begging you for more, I promise.

Get into a hot position.

Depending on your flexibility,   there are a few positions  that can be really hot. Face-to-face positions make eye contact easy, which intensifies the experience. The recipient can sit down (or stand up) and kneel in front of you, or both of you can get comfortable on the bed. You can also get into positions that allow for mutual action. If you’re into 69ing during oral sex? Try it for this, too: You can alternate between oral sex and a handjob.

Know How Long or Short to Make Your Strokes

The key here is to stretch the skin of the penis a comfortable amount as you stroke him. If you pull too far down, you’ll put strain on the skin directly beneath his glans (head of the penis) which hurts and will make him go soft. If you go too high, you knock against his glans which is more sensitive and needs to be handled like a baby’s head.

Lube It Up

Avoid oils and lotions like coconut oil, since those shouldn’t be used near urethras. Consider siliconebased lube if you want to take your handjob into the shower (it doesn’t wash off with water). Waterbased and hybrid lubes can also work magic. Even before your partner is completely hard, lube is a must. You want them to experience the fully wet sensation while they warm up.   the sloppier the HJ, the better.

Get your partner hard in your hand.

use the surface on the inside of your hand and fingers to caress their shaft and balls until your partner has a full erection. Alternate with different textures and amounts of pressure. You can start with lightly tickling your partner’s dick with your fingertips or using your entire palm to gently rub their penis, starting from the base of their shaft and moving slowly up to the tip. Once you’ve reached the top, circle their head with all five fingers and gently squeeze and rub.

Set the pace

Slow and steady “wins” the race hand job — at least to start things off.  Speed is important. I recommended starting with slower, longer strokes, and then speeding up as he gets closer to cumming.

Try a combination hand job and blowjob. You can make your partner feel great using just a hand job or just a blow job—or you can try combining a hand job with oral sex. Try licking your partner’s balls while stroking the shaft of their penis with your hand.

Use both hands and Mix it Up.If you feel more confident, try varying your technique.

Maybe add toys

You might have your partner wear a vibrating cock ring while you stroke . And either of you could wear a butt plug. For men prostate stimulation feels very good in combo with HJ. Besides. You can also use an egg stroker. Its super cheap and costs around 10 usd, you wear a sleeve with the lube on the penis and stroke it. Bumbs and ridges inside of the egg provide additional stimulation for the penis. Don’t forget about yourself, have a wearable vibrator on your clitoris or sit on a dildo with suction cup while you are giving a HJ

Stimulate their asshole.

If your partner is into and consents to anal play, you can accompany the HJ with fingering or oral sex. While you’re working their penis with one hand, lower your head down between their legs. Use your hands to spread their legs open, and with the tip of your tongue   make small circles around their asshole, then directly on the opening. If your partner moans or starts breathing more rapidly, you’re doing something right. Don’t shy away from anal fingering if your partner gives you the green light. After applying the  lube   very gently insert your finger.

Pay attention to their body language

Keep an eye out for their body signals—like faster breathing and moaning—to inform which speeds and amounts of pressure are turning them on

Touch yourself.

Just because you’re not on the receiving end of manual stimulation from a partner doesn’t mean you can’t make use of your free hand yourself! It’s probably hot to watch your partner enjoy the handjob you’re giving them, and the better you feel, the more your partner will likely feed off of your energy. Because the best handjob is the one that you get, too. Seeing you masturbate will majorly turn your dude on and you’ll be making yourself feel great. It’s a win-win.

Focus on pleasure, not orgasm

Sometimes — especially with penis owners — we get so focused on getting to orgasm that we miss the opportunities to notice our partner,   Slow things down, encourage communication, and show your enthusiasm for giving pleasure.”

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