Pegging Tips

Pegging is when a woman wears a strap-on dildo and penetrates her partner anally. Usually, pegging is often the act between heterosexual couples, so it’s a woman basically “banging” the man. So here there are some essential tips:

Talk about it first

Have a real conversation about what you’re hoping to experience and make sure you are both on board with the idea. This is not something you wanna try to do without the warning, for some people its absolutely no go and you should respect it.

Go sex toy shopping together

Now, for the accessories: a dildo, a harness, and lube its always better to shop  together, it will make you closer and more comfortable,  plus toy shopping together makes you   better understand each other needs and desires.

 

Make Sure Your Partner Is Relaxed And Turned On

Even if your partner has had anal sex with multiple partners in his life and is a pro, foreplay is important.  You have to be really turned on, think about erotic massage or wearing something sexy. Invest time in foreplay, whatever it is – oral sex, watching porn together or whatever it is that turns you on.

 

Prepare sphnicters:

Your  anus is surrounded by a ring of muscle, called the anal sphincter and those muscles are very tight that’s why if its not relaxed it will probably hurt and wont  allow something to pass through it. Start with something small like a finger or apply a vibrator to perineum anal opening, vibration helps to relax muscles. Wearing an anal plug before the pegging for 20-30 min is also a good idea, it will help your sphincters to get used to the filling of being penetrated and your anus to the filling of being filled. Or try  anal beads, if you insert  them, the moment you remove them your muscles are more relaxed and prepared for the penetration

 

Get Slippery

Remember that lube we discussed earlier? Use it. Lots of it. Probably two to three times the amount you think you need to use. Spread the lube both on your partner’s butt and on your dildo. Keep the bottle close by for reapplications throughout.

 

Ensure that the harness fits properly.

The pegger should have as much control over the dildo as possible, which means they should fit their harness tightly to their body while still being comfortable. This ensures that the harness doesn’t move around while they thrust.

 

Choose A Winning Position

let partner  choose the position, or put him in one that gives him as much control as possible to set the pace and stop if it gets too intense. Great options include having him sit on your lap or spooning him while you’re both on your sides. Doggystyle can be the easiest for insertion, but this is a deep penetration position and  he’ll have no control over the speed and penetration depth.

Go Slow

When you’re ready for actual penetration, the best rule is to GO SLOW and take the lead from your partner. Your main job is to keep him feeling turned on and relaxed. A good rule is to penetrate in a little, then stop and wait for him to get used to the feeling. Then continue, little by little, but don’t move it all the way in and pull out completely, we want to keep muscles relaxed and not let the sphincters to close. Once it opens up more, go ahead and penetrate deeper asking the partner how it feels. Stimulate other erogenous zones in their body, talk dirty, do whatever it takes to keep them turned on and aroused- that’s the best way to relax the muscles.

 

Take care

There’s certainly a chance you’ll see some poop , but the right prep can help. Don’t do it on new white sheets and have wipes on hand. if you both are planning to feel the whole experience and insert the whole length of the dildo, you the receiver might wanna clean their rectum using enema, anal douche or suppositories.

Consider adding some vibration. Remember, this is about the giver, not just the receiver.  pick up a We-Vibe or a bullet vibrator to use to stimulate your clit during the act.

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